Telling your partners: Be in charge of the situation and show that you care.
Tell your partner(s)…
- that you have an STD, which is spread by sex which means that they have been exposed.
- that they need to be treated whether they have symptoms or not.
- accurate information about your infection (like what you tested positive for) so that they can get the right STD treatment.
- that they need to visit a healthcare provider right away and explain that they have been exposed to an STD and need treatment.
Learn more about partner STD treatment options.
It’s normal to be nervous about telling your partner.
Everyone raises the subject differently but here are some ideas for handling the conversation:
- Talk to your partner as soon as possible.
- Imagine your roles are reversed – wouldn’t you want to know?
- Do it in person rather than texting – but if you have to text, get it done.
- Be proud of your intentions.
- Be direct and honest.
- Don’t force the conversation, be natural.
- Give them space. Don’t push your partner to make decisions about sex or your relationship right away.
- Encourage your partner to ask questions.